都已成年不拖不欠

 成年人有过交集以后，要做到不拖不欠实在太难了，唯有少一点跟别人结缘，两袖清风潇潇洒洒。

一期一會

 You can never understand life, you live life. 

All too well.

思來想去，值得記錄嗎？

好像不過是重來一遍而已，但人生大概就是這樣吧，相遇相知相愛，然後就沒有了。

我很喜歡我自己

人是注定寂寞的，來的時候是本質就是離開母體的過程，到離開這世上，你還是終究一人。

我們允許自己的情緒，接受他，接受情緒是殺死不了你的，你可以讓它慢慢離開你，然後看又是一條好漢了。

接納自己的情緒，非暴力溝通

 最近狀況有點差，煩著住在房子的事情，跟男朋友的感情也非常不好。

I'm happy now and that's all that matters

The hassle to settle an agreement of my flat has brought me back so many unpleasant memories. Although gone is the past, I slowly understand why I was so unhappy.

It wasn't me being depressed or crazy. It was simply because you were with an extremely toxic person. 

It is impossible to be kind when you are often mistreated. It feels hopeless because the person who is supposed to look after you and support you, not only he didn't. He decided to push you away and even spat on you. How could you be possibly intact?

Anyway we should all move on and remember that you are happy now. 

分手第165天 // Monthiversary

最近活得好快乐，日子充实，可能是继22岁上局之后才这么开心过。

谈恋爱前总是快乐的，究竟是谁让好好的一个小仙女变成怨妇呢？

但过去的已经过去了，也不再去纠结，至少把现在的日子过好才是最重要的。